(Originally I was going to post my error messages and ask for help but I could finally solve all of them)
(I guess for most of you this was super easy but as it took me some time to figure it out I'll post it for people who are too scared to ask

Add \irrNetLite2Beta\irrNetLite\include to Include Directories
Add /irrNetLite2Beta/irrNetLite/lib/libirrnet.a to Linker
Add example1.cpp to Project
Compile: [Linker error] undefined reference to `irr::net::createIrrNetServer(irr::net::INetCallback*, unsigned int, irr::net::SNetParams const&)' etcetc
Add CNetManager.cpp, SPacket.cpp to Project
Compile: [Linker error] undefined reference to `enet_initialize'
Get libenet.a from http://www.allegro.cc/files/download-at ... &id=689470
Add ../../irrNetLite2Beta/irrNetLite/lib/libenet-mingw/libenet.a to Linker
Compile: [Linker error] undefined reference to `compressBound'
Get zdll.lib from http://www.zlib.net/zlib123-dll.zip
Add ../../irrNetLite2Beta/irrNetLite/source/zlib/zlib123-dll/lib/zdll.lib to Linker
Compile: [Linker error] undefined reference to `htonl@4' etc
Add C:/Dev-Cpp/lib/libws2_32.a to Linker
Compile & Link: success -> Crash
Copy irrNetLite2Beta\irrNetLite\source\zlib\zlib123-dll\zlib1.dll to Project Directory
Finally, the Question "Client (c) or Server (s)?" pops up.
Works with example2.cpp too